Memory

What happens to memories ?

Take for instance L and her first love that she was with for eight years what happened to all those memories when she met and married M?

And now that her marriage appears to have failed what happens to all the years of marriage memories?

I don't know

How does someone cope with and deal with all those different memories and emotions ?

I have been lucky and have had what to some is the rare event and that is a long relationship with the same person for some 28 years so I have no way of knowing how one deals with having several major relationships.

I do know what I have gone through and also what L has gone through are not rare, how can it be when there are more than six billion people in the world, in fact what has happened to me and also to L must have been repeated millions of times, so somewhere on this planet there must be someone who could tell me how one copes with all these memories.

I have not asked L as I don't want to upset her more than she is already upset with what is going on in her life at this time.


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