Why all this stuff on L

I suppose that it is a good question why all this stuff on L?

It's a good question and the simple answer is that I have known L for a long time and to see the big life changes that she is going through is interesting and also very scary in that these changes can happen to anyone even to people who you think would have a stable relationship .

Just how does some one you know cope with all the change and disruption? To their life

I don't know the answer to that, all I do know is that it's nice to be there for someone you know and help and support them if they ask for help.

I have also been told by L that talking to someone who is not a relation but is a work friend does help with all that is going on, and surly in this day and age that is something worth doing?

So why write it down?

I suppose it's my way of dumping all this to a safe place so that when I look back on it all and what ever happens to L I will be able to see if the help and advice that I gave L was mostly right.

I don't expect to get it all right, as I am only human I will make mistakes, so the least thing that I can do about it is to learn from the mistakes that I make.

The other thing is that I don't think I would remember all the little things, which in the fullness of time may or may not make a difference if not to L to myself and Mrs D, as that relationship is and always will be the most important one.
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